3 things I wish dads wouldn’t do during family photo sessions

Family photo sessions don’t have to feel stressful or overly perfect to create beautiful images. After photographing families for over a decade, I’ve learned that the best sessions usually happen when everyone relaxes a little, lets go of the pressure, and focuses more on connection than perfection.

Here are a few things I gently wish dads wouldn’t do during family photo sessions — straight from a family photographer who’s seen it all.

1 — Show up already grumpy because you don’t want to be there.

Listen… I get it. Taking photos may not be your favorite thing in the world. But these photos usually mean SO much to moms. Like… deeply, emotionally important.

And honestly? They matter to your kids too. The little season you’re in right now changes so fast. One day they’re asking you to throw them in the air, and before you know it, they’re grown and you can’t even pick them up anymore.

I promise this season is worth documenting, and one day you and your family will be so thankful you did.

2 — Constantly ask “What else?” after every prompt 😂

If I tell you to snuggle your kids, walk together, play, tickle them, toss them in the air… that IS the prompt. You don’t have to rush to the next thing or wait for a checklist of poses. The magic usually happens in the in-between moments after I give a little direction and let things unfold naturally.

The more present you are, the more genuine your photos feel.

3 — Keep looking at the camera when I specifically told you not to 🤣

I promise I’ll tell you when I want everyone looking at me. But most of the time? I want you looking at your wife. Your kids. Their little faces. The way they laugh. The way they hold onto you.

I want to capture connection and honestly, the best family photos almost never come from everyone staring perfectly at the camera.

Last but not least…

The dads who come in willing to play, trust the process, be silly, and just love on their family? Those are ALWAYS the sessions that feel the most real 🤍